Oh boy, cosmic justice, you got me good today!

Way back in the day, pretty sure somewhere in the college years, I had a few of my friends over while my parents and brother weren’t home.  Nothing nefarious or anything, just chilling in the basement watching TV.  For some reason we started goofing off and one of us hurtled through the air and right into the love seat.  With a sickening SNAP we knew we had our work cut out for us.  Sure enough, the leg of the love seat was snapped right off. 

Thankfully a couple of us are relatively handy and we went to town on fixing it.  In no time it was good as new and I crossed my fingers that I’d never have to tell my parents about it.

A few years later I got a very random phone call form my dad and he sounds pretty frustrated.  “Is there something you’d like to tell me about the love seat Mikey?”  I groaned and the incident poured out with full honesty.  After I mentioned how proud we were of the work we’d done on it he got a little weird…  was that a hint of a chuckle in voice or was it just cracking with more anger?  “Mike, it looks like a damn pin cushion with nails sticking out of it everywhere!!!”

With that comment I started laughing so hard I had tears rolling down my face.  “Dad, did say ‘nails’?” I asked.  When he confirmed it I laughed again and he started to get angry with me while I composed myself.  “Dad, do you see the two screws in the side that were hidden away and do you see the thin line of glue we used?  We didn’t use a single nail.  I’m pretty sure you’re talking to the wrong son.  You should talk with the one who’s a little less handy.”  At that point I was again overcome with laughter as Dad paused…  “Okay, love you Bud,” and he was gone.  Dad and I would still joke about that incident every so often right up until the day he passed. 

You’re probably wondering where I’m going with that story…

After a couple of brief seconds of my blood pressure spiking that story popped back into my head this evening…  right after Gavin filled me in on how he’d broken one of the dining room table chairs today.  In a flash I could hear Dad’s voice, “just you wait Mikey, just you wait” in my head just like every time I did something that that frustrated him.  He always told me to just wait until one day when I had sons and they would pull the stuff I pulled or break things like I’d broken things.  He was totally right!  The cosmos doesn’t necessarily strike back swiftly, but it certainly exacted justice tonight. 

Quite honestly, it is frustrating that the chair broke, but there’s more to the story.  Gavin and I spent some quality time walking through the plan of how to fix it and we went right to town gluing it back up.  Time will tell if we can completely fix it, but regardless of the result I had great memories of my dad come back into my stream of consciousness, Gavin got to see me take a deep breath and not blow a gasket, and we got some great father son time together…  oh, and I know justice will be done on Gavin one day.  Just you wait Gavers, just you wait.  😉

Thanks!!!

Tonight’s kind of a weird one.  The day has been fantastic all around.  Great progress on things at work, a strong feeling of living towards my purpose, progress on some personal goals, a wonderful walk up the bluffs over lunch, and an amazing yoga class.  All good stuff, all day.  How weird is it then that I’m most thankful for a reminder of one of my faults?  

Yesterday I finally did something I’d been meaning to do for almost two weeks.  I send an email of appreciation to the boss and boss’ boss of someone who helped me out tremendously.  The purpose of the email was to thank them for a great hire and share an example of what a great impact this person has had on my teams and on me.  Essentially, a pumped up thank you going to her leaders instead of just her.  

When I spoke with her today she shared that her boss had shared it with her and how appreciative she was for the email.  I could hear the emotion in her voice as she thanked me for taking the time to appreciate her and thanked me for “finding the time in my busy schedule to write an email like that.”  My initial thought was joy in hearing the joy in her voice.  The second thought was a little disappointment in myself.

I’d meant to send that email weeks ago.  I could’ve sent a handwritten thank you card to her as well to accentuate how much I appreciate her.  The funny thing is that this person has sent me more thank you notes in less than a year than I’ve sent in total to everyone in the past year.  She is a living example of gratitude and I didn’t take action right away like I should have.

So while we talked I had this wave of disappointment rush over me and I took time to soak it in for a few minutes after the call.  After thinking I realized just how much I appreciated this reminder of one of my faults, my lack of follow through on showing appreciation to others.  Crazy, right?  The gratitude guy doesn’t spend as much time writing thank you notes as he should…  Argh!!!  Cue and apply facepalm.

This slap upside the head was something I was very grateful for today.  In this case my fault still led to her seeing my appreciation while reminding me of the gap I have to close between who I am and who I am called to be.  I can either wallow in my disappointment or I can get off my butt and do something about it.  How wonderful to have a reminder of my faults to remind me to push myself to be the best version of me.

The funny thing is that I’m pretty sure I owe her another thank you…  and this one I’ll be writing shortly.

Thanks!!!

The most recent business related book I read was kind of a dud.  There wasn’t as much depth as I was hoping for and it didn’t seem to apply nearly as much as I thought it would.  Here’s the interesting thing though…  I am still very thankful for reading it.  At one point it references a different book, one that sounded very interesting.  I hopped online, read the description, and it’s not the audiobook I’m currently reading.

I’m not super far into it yet (less than 30%) so I’m not ready to give it as a recommendation, but it’s already causing my mind to go on a rollercoaster ride of ideas.  Some thoughts have me learning the topics the book intended while others have kind of tracked off to the side, gathered up speed, and are now an avalanche of their own.  I love books like this when there are so many different depths to take in.

One other thing I’m thankful for is taking action.  Yup, I’m going to sound totally cryptic, I but I took action today to push me closer to achieving one of my dreams.  It was a very simple little step, but it suddenly made it feel more real.  I am so thankful I finally took this step.

Thanks!!!

While talking with my mom late in the week I mentioned Gavin’s Pinewood Derby this weekend and invited her to come down to hang out and watch it with us.  Everything worked out and she headed to La Crosse today.

It was a blur of action while she was here, but it was great to spend time with her.  We were able to spend some time shooting the bull over lunch, drove to see the bald eagles migrating through, and then headed over for the race.  It felt great spending time with Mom and sharing our life with her.  There were many times I just smiled as I saw the memories of raising two boys flash across her brain as she observed our family interactions.  We also had fun trading stories of past Pinewood Derby experiences with each other!  I’m always thankful for time with my mom and I’m very appreciative of her making the drive here today.

Today was the 8th and final Pinewood Derby for the boys.  Sure, the results may not have been quite as storybook-ish as Peyton Manning’s farewell, but it ended on a high note.  Gavin and I had time together in the workshop as he made his car this year.  He had the opportunity to learn and grow from adversity, and, most importantly, he had fun.

We’ve made many cars together as a family, and now it’s time to close the door on that chapter of our lives.  I’m looking forward to making cars with them and their kids somewhere down the road, but for now I’m thankful for all of the memories we’ve made in this great event.

Thanks!!!

Becky and I opted out of our normal cycling and yoga classes in favor of a slight change of pace this morning.  We bundled up, hopped on our bikes, and headed to the bluffs.  After taking cycling classes this winter we’ve been chomping at the bit to get outside and ride.  Sure, it was a little chilly (24-ish degrees), but we figured it’d be okay.

Once we cut across town we headed up Bliss Rd and up Grandad Bluff.  Holy crap is that a crazy climb!  The cool part was that we were able to make it all the way up and enjoy the beautiful view from atop the bluffs.  Whether hiking, running, or biking the view seems a little better each time it’s earned.

The way down was amazing, but also a little chilly.  Without really thinking through everything I never thought about low 20’s temps and the windchill of going 25+ mph while going down (crazy to think our top speed was over 30!  I’m sure many of you have gone faster, but that was crazy to see).  Regardless, starting the day with a nice long bike ride outside was a great start to the day.  Throw in the sense of accomplishment of reaching the top of the bluffs and I felt great.

Gavin headed out to Hunter Safety classes and Becky was babysitting for a friend, so it was just Dominic and I.  We went out to breakfast and had a wonderful time shooting the bull with each other.  Feeling inspired we then did a little shopping (mmm…  Holmen Meat Locker…) and had a lot of fun hanging out for the better part of a couple of hours.  What an awesome time for us to hang out and just talk while spending time talking about values.  Once we got home he got some homework done until lunch and then we fired up some games with the two of us until everyone else came home.

It’s not often we have extended periods of one on one time like that and I’m thankful for every moment we had today.  Connecting and bonding with him fills my heart with joy.

Thanks!!!

 

What a full day it’s been! As a cool added bonus it began and ended with brilliant views of the moon.

This morning the moon totally lit up the sky when we went for our run. The light was so bright we ran with our moon shadows as additional company.

This evening we set out with the family, dogs included, on a quest to see the Northern Lights. We headed north past Holmen and turned east before Galesville. We followed the twists and turns of country roads that gradually transformed from two lane roads into almost one lane dirt roads on top of the bluffs. When we found the optimal spot I got out and was thwarted by the brilliance of the moon. The light reflecting off it was so intense it drowned out any possibility of seeing the green lights dancing in the sky. When we decided to head back home we plugged in our GPS and realized we’d driven all the way to Ettrick! Sure, it would’ve been awesome to see the lights, but the moon provided some pretty scenic views as we drove through the driftless area’s country roads.

Today started with an appreciation of the moon’s beauty and ended with the same. How cool is that?

Thanks!!!

Last night Dominic asked Becky if he could go to the Y to workout after supper tonight. Without hesitation the answer was yes. Tonight as we were figuring out who was going to take him Becky also talked me into going. As we started getting ready we helped talk Gavin into going along with also.

Once we got to the Y Dominic split off for some weightlifting while Fitness Coach Rufus (aka Gavin) took Becky and I to the track. Coach Rufus decided to hit the intervals pretty hard as we went from sprints to jogs to sprints to walking and everything in between. After a while he proceeded to take us to the cycling room and led us on a great workout including ladders, hills, and the whole gamut.

It was pretty awesome to get out as a family. I’m so glad the boys are loving the feel of exercise and are open to doing it regularly. What a great way to help them stay healthy AND get some excellent family time.

Seeing Gavin in the role of Coach Rufus put a huge smile on my face. Not only does he crack me up with his larger than life personality, I’m pretty sure Becky and I got a glimpse into the future. He’d be an excellent coach and it’s easy to see him doing some type of a role like that in the future.

Thanks!!!

My alarm went off at 4:32 and I was doing sit ups with Becky by 4:50.  We were out the door for our run by 5:10.  After the run, a hot shower, and getting ready I was out the door by 6:45.  At work I jumped into some building maintenance followed by some follow ups form a meeting the day before.  A few minutes in one team meeting and off to a phone meeting before I met with a couple of teammates for planning.  From 9:10 until 4:25 we were hammering away on ideas to move our teams forward in the next few months (with the exception of a short lunch).  After the planning session I jumped into another project and was out the door around 5:20.  Drive home, eat a quick supper, change into workout clothes and off to yoga by 6:12.

Non stop from 4:32am until 6:12pm, my mind was cranking away in overdrive with many thoughts, ideas, and plans.  To be honest, I was feeling pretty mentally exhausted by the time I got to yoga and laid out on my mat.  And that’s when the magic happened…

I felt total repose.  No stress, no noice in my brain, no tasks, no next meeting, no pressure, no timelines, no nothing…  except a focus on my breathing and my body.  My mind was totally still and it seemed as if I hit the pause button on life for an hour.  Extreme relaxation, peace, and chillin’.  Exactly what I was craving to calm for the night.

Tomorrow will also be very full and complete, but I know I will search for and find moments of repose to soothe the savage beast throughout the day.

Thanks!!!

I am so thankful for my Audible.com account.  Over the past few months it’s provided me the opportunity to read several business books and biographies.  With the windshield time I’ve had audiobooks have been an excellent way to utilize my drive time in a positive way.

In between books I often mix in a podcast to change it up a little bit.  One of the ones I’ve really gotten hooked on is Hardcore History by Dan Carlin.  It’s a very different look at history and gives a deep dive into many interesting topics from way back in the day.

Certainly not for everyone, it’s a very interesting way to look back into history.  The current podcast I’m listening to is focused on Julius Caesar’s perspective of the Roman attacks on the Celtic tribes in Europe.  As he clearly explains up front, it’s history as told from the side of Darth Vader and gets into deep discussions of reasons behind the invasion and so on.  Throughout the story there’s a ton of history lessons piled in.  Not only is it interesting to go back in time to learn more history there are certainly lessons to pull forward into the present.  I never would’ve thought I’d enjoy history lessons so much that I voluntarily listen to them!

I’m thankful for an enlightening and knowledge filled ride to work this morning.  Soon I’ll be back to my normal reading, but for the time being I’m enjoying the change of pace.

Thanks!!!

Today has been an incredible day.  Nothing completely out of the ordinary, but so amazingly perfect in its completeness and depth.  There’s been a little bit of everything from struggles to successes to relaxing to working hard to working out.  There was even a little bit of time dreaming about travel and remembering past trips 😉.

My emotions have run the gamut but have largely been focused on the positive.

I’ve had to work through my weaknesses and had the opportunity to rely on my strengths.

There were moments of seeing the results of my past mistakes and failures while also seeing how I’ve learned from them.  I was shown past successes and saw how sometimes they created a false sense of security that I later learned from.

At times I had the stillness of mind to stop and think more deeply about how I live my life, how I should live my life, and how to close the gap between those two.

My morning started off with one on one time with Becky on an early morning run under a beautifully orange moon.  On my way to work I called Becky to make sure she was seeing the sunrise that looked like one of the two suns setting in Tatooine.

I had one on one time with each of the boys and got big hugs and “I love you’s” from both of them without being asked.

I spent time talking with both my brother and my mom.  There were several moments spent thinking of Dad.

It’s been an incredible day.  So full of life, so completely perfect in its imperfection.  I am so thankful for all that happened today, I wouldn’t trade a single moment for anything.

Thanks!!!