So I thought I would blog about something besides vacation today, but then I was caught totally off guard while running early this morning. On the treadmill I was able to select which trail I would see on the screen and one of the options jumped off and I had to choose it… The North Island of New Zealand!
While putting in my miles I was able to re-run some of my favorite views from our trip to NZ including Cathedral Cove. Seeing it on the screen brought back a rush of emotions and I had a flood of memories come roaring back. It’s funny, but I remember seeing the rock formations from inside the cave the first time so clearly… Just as I can remember the smiles on Becky, Dominic, & Gavin as we played in the ocean and enjoyed the beauty of the area.
Once that trail was completed I went through the process a few times and was reminded of so many other hikes in New Zealand as well as other places. It’s funny, I didn’t quite realize some of the similarities my favorite places on Earth all have until I had to stop and remember that I was seeing a trail in New Zealand and not in Olympic, Yoho, Glacier, Sawtell, or Seward. So many glorious places and incredible natural beauty!
Throughout the day several plans all started to come together in my brain. Some personal, some business, and some a mix of the two. While there’s a legitimate chance that none of them will pan out it feels great to see the plans slowly forming. Even if they don’t work out I know I’ll be better from the experiences and will be able to either move closer to each of those dreams or come up with a slightly different and improved dream in the process.
Maybe it’s something nagging in my brain from a week ago today, but it almost feels like I’m taking more time to enjoy the journey and the moment. When I am putting thought into these ideas I’m enjoying the process of thought ideation and creation. We’ll see where they end up, but for now it’s feeling pretty awesome and I’m thankful for the slow but steady progress.
Earlier today while waiting in line I struck up a conversation with someone. We’d both had the shared experience of having to “donate” a Leatherman to the TSA as we’d forgotten them in our backpacks while travelling. Before I knew it about 10 minutes had passed and we were still talking vacations. As we talked there were several times when he was asking me about places that we’d gone, how old kids should be before he takes them, how much time they should take, and things along those lines. Amongst those questions I was also learning about their upcoming trip to Glacier this summer and gave him some ideas of places to see along the way if they decide to drive instead of taking the train. It was a blast! Nothing like talking vacations to get me all fired up and my heart all full of joy.
Last week I was talking with a couple of teammates and we got on the topic of vacations… I know, that topic seems to follow me often! At one point my teammate asked how I take so many cool vacations. It led to a great conversation on two parts. First off, it reminded me of the biggest reason we go on them… they are amongst the most important things in life to Becky and I. As such we prioritize them and put them ahead of many other types of expenses. Secondly, it was a great way to share some financial thoughts and dream / life focus with my teammate. As I drove back that comment from her kept rolling in my head and I just kept smiling. It was a moment for me to remember why we put the focus where we do, we love the experience of heading out into nature to see and experience new things and to enjoy the peace.
My blog post from a couple of years ago yesterday popped back up and left me smiling as I went to bed last night. In my hotel room in San Francisco I saw this quote on a magazine for the hotel chain… “Travel lets us see ourselves in a new way. With our minds free to dream, goals become clearer, moments grow richer, and we return home fuller than when we left.” That quote has stuck with me and reminds me that while I love travel, there’s a secret takeaway that I need to remember in my daily life. Any moment of any given day can have that same magical travel feeling… if I take the time and mindfulness to be fully immersed in the present.
Today all three of these thoughts popped in and out of my head and I’m so thankful for all of them.
This morning was pretty awesome! Due to the cold weather running outside with the dogs was’t really an option, but luckily Becky had a great idea. One of our favorite yoga instructors was teaching the 5:30am class so after a round of early morning sit ups at home we were in a 96+ degree room sweating our creaky joints off. The first few minutes made me feel like I was doing an impression of the Tin Man but by the end I was melting right into my mat. It felt amazing.
On our drive home we were able to take in a scenic sunrise. Is it just me or are the sunrises more beautiful in the super cold weather like this? Regardless of the scientific reason is was so relaxing to go from yoga to seeing the vibrant reds and pinks in the sunrise.
One of the reasons we were able to go to yoga this morning was Gavin’s Battle of the Books event at UW La Crosse. Thanks to being one of the top two teams in their school Gavin’s team qualified to take on the best teams from other schools in La Crosse. They faced off via 45 questions on 20 different books (15 questions in each of 3 rounds). It was so much fun watching Gavin and his team interact during the event. There was no question that when they knew it, they knew it! They’d fly out of their seats, grab the right answer, and then smile from ear to ear as they waited. It was pretty awesome to observe.
As it turns out they tied for 3rd place out of 20 teams, not too shabby! They were smiling big when they got their medals in the awards ceremony. Regardless of the results I’m just super thankful for how much he loves to read, be on a team, and challenge himself. Seeing them finish so high was a pretty sweet bonus!
All of that before 11:00am… Seems like a pretty amazing morning to me, and one that I am so grateful for.
Over the past couple of weeks I’ve been pushing myself to not trust my instincts to grab my phone whenever I have a free moment. You know those moments when there’s an unexpected silence or a wait? Instead of looking to my portable screen to provide a quick fix of news, sports, or some other form of entertainment I pause and do something a little crazy… enjoy some time to think. Sadly, it’s taking some getting used to. The first split second of “non-entertainment” I feel an urge to grab my phone and fire it up. It’s weird, I didn’t realize just how much of my time was getting gobbled up in that manner.
Over the past week I’ve had some excellent thoughts and ideas pop up during those down times. I’ve thought about some changes to my book, pondered some business opportunities, considered a slight change in my exercise and diet plan, and have even put thought into a change to this blog. As I’ve found more and more short bursts of thought time each day I’ve been able to to push some of these thoughts and concepts further along than they ever would’ve been without taking time to let them ferment.
It really hit me while I was upstairs in my workshop this afternoon. Becky took the boys to Scouts and I had time to myself up there. Instead of firing up music or some other type of audio I just stood there in silence as I sanded and thought. It felt amazing! There was a moment in which I had almost that same feeling of being on vacation… an inner peace while focusing uninterrupted thought on something important to me.
Today might not be the most exciting post I’ve ever written, but I get this weird sense that it is a turning point of sorts. More focus on directing my time, focus and energy on where I truly want it to go as opposed to letting life happen to me. I keep getting a line from Essentialism in my head… either I don’t prioritize my life someone else will. There are a handful of things I need to focus strongly on over the next few months and I’m keeping a better eye out for what’s non-essential to those goals.
Earlier this morning Dominic and some of his fellow bandmates had a Solo & Ensemble competition in Onalaska. It was pretty cool to see Dominic and many of his best friends up on stage playing together. They did a great job and sounded fantastic! Afterwards they were also able to get some coaching from the judge and they did showed excellent growth mindset as they learned some ways to improve.
Later in the morning we went back for Dominic’s solo piece. Talk about putting yourself out there for everyone, it was him up in front of everyone (approximately 20 people – students, parents, teachers, and a judge). He gave an intro to his piece and then played away with only his teacher accompanying him on piano.
He was nervous, but he stayed focused and kept playing. It was wild to see him in front of a crowd like that. I’ve done enough speaking to know how nerve-racking it can be to put yourself out there, but what he did blows my mind. It was only few months ago that he started playing the trumpet and this was his first solo. Talk about putting yourself out there for the world!
Dominic, way to step out of your comfort zone and try something completely different bud! You were an inspiration for me yet again and I’ll be sure to keep the thought of you in my head when I’m questioning whether or not I should put myself out there. The amount of courage and strength it took today was incredible, you made your mom and I proud of you yet again. Love you Bud!
One of the tools I used to kickstart 2019 was a list of activities to focus on to make it a wonderful year. Today I started following one of the fourteen activities… re-reading five of the most important books I’ve read recently. While I love reading a wide variety of books there are some “classics” that could be even more beneficial for me if I read and re-read them in more detail. Diving in deeper into each of these books helps me get the concepts and insights more than by giving them each one good read.
The book I started going back through today is Essentialism, The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown. It’s a wonderful concept to go back to fresh off the heels of Atomic Habits and Digital Minimalism. All three tie so tightly together it’s pretty amazing. Once this is finished I’m going to head back to Designing Your Life as it seems to be the next in line on this series.
In reading it today I was amazed at some of the details and actions I had missed or forgotten the first time around. There were also several concepts that I seemed to see a little more clearly now after taking some of the advice to heart. This is proving to be a great way to pause and evaluate the gap between how I am performing to how I would like to be performing as well as showing me the roadmap of how to get there. I can’t wait to see where I am in about 3-6 months when I read it again!
Cue the awesomely horrible scratchy voice of the ’80’s hairband Cinderella… “Don’t know what you got til it’s gone….” Tears of sadness roll down my cheeks as I type this and am missing something that was so beautiful in my life… bluetooth and other car features.
I didn’t realize that there was something lower than a base model car until about 8am this morning when I got a loaner from the body shop. A couple of months ago I was backed into while in a parking lot and it’s now getting fixed. The loaner car the shop has for me is about the lamest ride I’ve had in a long time, but it’s really helped me appreciate some of the car features I didn’t realize I was taking for granted.
I know, total first world problems here, but I knew I was in trouble when I found the 8 track player while searching for a USB plugin. Not only is there no place to plug in my phone there is no bluetooth to connect my phone to… ugh! Up until now I had no idea just much I should appreciate some of those basic features with all the driving I do!
Time to go back to crying while singing my ’80’s power ballad for my recently lost and finally appreciated love…