Day 678 – Thankful for a New Favorite Condiment, Joey Chestnut Classic Boardwalk Coney Sauce

Day 678 – Thankful for a New Favorite Condiment, Joey Chestnut Classic Boardwalk Coney Sauce

There are some days when there are many positive things on my life that I’m thankful for, but it just feels right to go with something a little more out of the box and out there. Sure, there are several deeply serious things that I’m thankful for today like a strong friendship with teammates, trying new things, remembering to share my vision and appreciation for teammates, the opportunity to help someone grow in a way others have helped me, and a relaxing nights of games with family. All wonderful moments and I’m grateful for each. With all that in mind I’m going with my tastebuds and their gleeful smiles today!

I’m pretty sure I stumbled upon quite possibly the greatest condiment known to man… Joey Chestnut Classic Boardwalk Coney Sauce. This sauce is AWESOME!!! That’s the main ingredient, Awesome!

Where do I even start on this gift from the gods? A beautiful mix of ketchup, mustard, and barbecue sauce with a little extra zip at the end this is the only condiment needed for any type of sausage or meat. I’ve had it with hot dogs, brats, sausage, chicken breast, and venison and it’s been awesome every single time. Seriously, I’ve been combing the pantry and fridge to find new things to try it on. I’m hooked!

If you see me at a barbecue this year don’t be surprised to see me pull out a bottle of this amazing addition to any meal. God bless you Mr Chestnut, you’ve brought a little extra sunlight to my life!

Thanks!!!

Day 677 – Thankful for the First Batch of Polished Rocks and Texas Hold ‘Em with the Boys

Day 677 – Thankful for the First Batch of Polished Rocks and Texas Hold ‘Em with the Boys

Today was a big day for me as my first batch of rocks were finally finished!  For Father’s Day Becky and the boys got me a rock tumbler.  Finally, after 4+ weeks of running the tumbler the first barrel full of rocks were completely polished.

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I was happily surprised with how well they turned out.  I wasn’t quite sure what to expect and with it being my first time I wasn’t quite sure which rocks would turn out and which wouldn’t.  Thank goodness I lucked out on a handful of them!

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Now that the first batch is done I’ve got another two running that will be done in the next 3-6 weeks.  Woo hoo!!!

After cleaning up the rocks the boys and I sat down to play the game they’ve been asking to play since Scout camp and camping this weekend…  Texas Hold ‘Em.  We spent the time not playing for any cash and used it as an opportunity to break them in on the rules and terms.  We had a blast and it’s nice to have another game in our back pocket to play on a moment’s notice.

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Thanks!!!

Day 676 – Thankful for a Bike Ride Through the Wildlife Refuge and Awesome Ribs

Today’s blog is definitely not the most likely if combos, but both were amazing!

While camping with the Thums clan Becky and I snuck out for a long bike ride while the cousins all went fishing. We had a rough idea of where we were headed, but we happily surprised to find that we were able to bike through the Sandhill Wildlife Refuge outside of Pittsville. We got pretty cool 8+ mile tour of the forest, fields and wetlands. While cruising on the dirt road we saw quite a bit of wildlife including turtles, a snake, and a family of swans. It was very peaceful and chill, just what the doctor ordered.

As is the case every year we had great meals all day. Breakfast was made by Nathan and Dominic and was a tasty start to the day. Walking tacos for lunch were quite a treat as always. Dinner was something else completely as Matt spent the better part of the day prepping and smoking some of the best ribs I’ve ever had. They were delicious! Pretty sure I can skip all meals tomorrow… wait a sec, what’s that? Biscuits and gravy for breakfast? Well, I guess a little over eating isn’t the end of the world!

Thanks!!!

Day 675 – Thankful for Starting the Day with an Incredible Sunrise and Ending the Day with a Campfire

Today has been filled with so many blessings that I could write a blog that would go on for pages and pages. From start to finish through many successes and challenges there have been many things I’m thankful for today. Happy moments filled with joy, some difficult moments in which I was thankful for the opportunity to grow. When I weigh out all of those moments it really comes down to the bookends of the day, two simple moments.

This morning I was on the road by 5:10am. The dark slowly rose as I drove and exposed a thick fog that added a mystical feel to the scenery. I was so fortunate that this started to unfold as I drove up to Arcadia. As I rolled into Independence I had an awesome view of this…

The morning became more and more beautiful and I finally pulled over for a couple of minutes to watch the sun slowly rise over a cornfield on a side road. It was a wonderful moment of peace and solitude. I turned on some chill music and just felt at peace.

As the night wraps up we’re now chilling around the campfire. Chilling out and shooting the bull there’s a wonderful mix of symmetry and opposition with the morning. It is a simple beauty, peaceful and relaxing, yet it is a time focused on being with others instead of solitude. Sitting with each other feels great and I’m thankful for the time with family.

A sunrise in the morning, a fire in the evening… So much to be handful for in between. What a great day!

Day 674 – Thankful for Spending Time During the Summer at Grandma and Grandpa’s

Day 674 – Thankful for Spending Time During the Summer at Grandma and Grandpa’s

Today I am thankful for spending time during the summer at Grandma and Grandpa’s.  The funny thing is that it isn’t me doing that, it is my boys who are enjoying that experience right now.

Back when Nick and I were little kids we would ride in my Grandparent’s pickup truck for about six hours to go on an adventure every summer.  Seeing as there were no carseat rules we’d have one of us in the middle dodging the shifter while the other sat on Grandma’s lap.  I still can’t believe what great sports they were about that!

We’d spend two weeks away from home without Mom and Dad each summer and it was amazing!  The time was split between some aunts and uncles and cousins, but the lion’s share was spent at Grandma and Grandpa’s.  Those were amongst the most memorable times of the summer, staying up late, catching fireflies, laughing at Grandma when she got pulled over for speeding, and eating ice cream every single night.  We’d do the occasional breakfast at Hardee’s, spend time at the farm, look for arrowheads, and make the occasional road trip.  Did I mention that we were spoiled every moment?   It was awesome!

As I look back, the best part was spending time with Grandma and Grandpa.  There was no other time in which we spent as much one on one time with each of them.  We’d talk and shoot the bull, share jokes, and just get to know each other better.  One of the biggest reasons I felt as close to them as I did (and still do) was from the time we spent together during those awesome summer days.  Looking back I wouldn’t trade those times for anything.

So back to tonight’s blog…  With my boys up at Mom and StepBrad’s it’s their opportunity to do the same thing that Nick and I used to do.  They get one on one time with their grandparents, having fun, creating memories, getting spoiled, and strengthening their relationships with them.  Of course they’d probably mention that they’re favorite parts were going to the Science Museum, hiking in InterState Park, playing mini golf, and heading out on the boat…  but if asked later in life I’d bet their answers will change drastically.  They’ll remember the time they spent with their grandparents and appreciate that more than anything…  just like Nick and I do.  That priceless experience is something I am so grateful for.

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One other thing that keeps cracking me up, there’s another common bond that is great.  One of the things Nick and I also did at Grandma and Grandpa’s was play a lot of pool in the basement.  We’d play against each other, make up games, get frustrated with each other, laugh with each other, and bond as brothers.  Lo and behold, each night my mom has sent me pics of the boys playing pool in their basement…  How awesome is that???

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Thanks!!!

Day 673 – Thankful for Steve Bloor Adventure Day

Day 673 – Thankful for Steve Bloor Adventure Day

When something has happened three years in a row you’ve got to stand back and appreciate it.

Two years ago Steve, Brian, Jeremy, and I were heading out Colorado for a road trip.

Last year Steve, the boys, and I were just returning from a long weekend hiking trip in Colorado.

Tonight it just so happened that we went out to eat with Steve and Kathy and planned our next adventure… a long weekend of cave tours in Missouri next Spring.

Steve, let’s make a deal… Every August 1st we’re either somewhere awesome or spending part of the day planning the next adventure. Thanks for inspiring new trips!

Thanks!!!

Day 671 – Thankful for a Reminder of an Awesome Childhood Dream Come True

Day 671 – Thankful for a Reminder of an Awesome Childhood Dream Come True

Full disclosure, I’ve already blogged about this experience once before (Check it out here), but it really hit home for me again today. Five years ago today Becky helped to bring a childhood dream to life. I got a text from her of a picture from Facebook reminding her of this and it’s had me smiling ever since.

Dinosaurs were one of my favorite things in the world back in the day and I wanted to be a paleontologist in the worst way. My parents always supported all of my crazy dreams, no matter how crazy or short lived, and helped offer the chances for me to grow towards them. In this case they’d bought me a sweet dinosaur encyclopedia which I’m still pretty sure is the most read book I own.

Between that book and an old PBS show (possibly Reading Rainbow or something similar) I learned of a slice of heaven on Earth… Dinosaur National Monument. It is a huge wall of many exposed dinosaur bones that are slowly excavated and studied. You could even touch them! In the worst way I wanted to get there to see it, but our vacations never got us close to the Utah and Colorado border (and with good reason, there is nothing of note remotely close).

Isn’t it funny how much more we appreciate something that we’ve wanted for a very long time? It seems that we anticipate it more and our experience is even more heightened due to the delay. By the time Becky brought up the idea about three decades later the dream had cooled to an ember but quickly roared back into a blaze.

By the time we walked into the building and I saw that wall I’d dreamt about for thirty plus years my eyes immediately welled up as my heart was full of joy. It was a moment of my life that will never be forgotten. A moment of pure joy frozen in time. The waiting made it even more special. Even as I type this I’m wiping away some happy tears as I relive that moment. It still gives me the chills after five years.

While that moment was incredible, there was another moment that happened at almost the same time that also brings me much happiness. It was when I looked at Becky with misty eyes and saw the smile on her face as she watched the utter joy on mine. It was so awesome to see just how special she knew this moment was for me and the joy of knowing that she helped turn my childhood dream into reality. In that moment we shared smiles of pure elation and it was incredible. I am beyond thankful for her actions to make this happen. It’s amongst the favorite memories in my life. She gave me something so special that I can’t even begin to explain the feeling.

So on this five year anniversary of that moment I can’t help but focus on it again today. Becky and a wall of old bones brought the child out in me, and ecstatic kid who had just reached to the heaven me and touched the stars of his dreams… or in this case, reached towards the rock and touched history.

Mom and Dad, thanks for supporting my crazy dreams and ideas with books and positive thinking. You also taught me that we don’t always get what we want when we want it, but there’s always a way to get it eventually as long as we stay positive and work hard. Love you!

Becky, thanks for helping me close a circle of my childhood and for helping me reach a decades old dream. The joy you brought me through that experience is so huge I don’t even know where to start. You brought out the little smiling dreamer kid in me! Love you!

Thanks!!!

Day 670 – Thankful for the Life Lessons Learned from Shooting a Rocket

At one point last night Dominic made the comment “Rockets hate me.” He’s tried several times to launch a model rocket but for one reason or another it’s never quite worked out. At Scout Camp this year Sue Adams offered up the opportunity for him to shoot one off to start wrapping up a merit badge. Unfortunately he’d tossed the one that had failed several times so we headed off to Hobby Lobby yesterday and found a new one. He immediately went to work on putting it together.

From the process of putting it together through laughing it today I was thankful for so many wonderful life lessons he learned. While the emotions ran the entire spectrum there were so many little nuggets of wisdom for him to learn (and for me to remember for myself!)

  • When you get frustrated it’s a good time to take a step back and take a deep breath. At one point he was so angry at the project that he unknowingly was making life more difficult. It wasn’t until after he calmed down that he saw the solution and found the fix.
  • There is such a thing as too much of a good thing. When applying glue to hold the fins he added a bit much and they kept sliding. Once we cleaned it off and only used a little it worked great. More isn’t always better.
  • If at first you don’t succeed try again… using the lessons learned from the last time. When something doesn’t work, don’t give up. Earn from the failure and try again using that knowledge. If you fail again repeat the process until you have success.
  • Gratitude makes us all happier. As he was wrapping up the rocket he paused, gave me a hug, and said “thanks for the help Dad, I’m thankful for having a dad who’s so good at crafts.” He was beaming as he said it, as was I when I heard him say it. It put both of us in an even better mood.
  • Victory always tastes sweeter when it’s hard fought. He was smiling huge when he finally reached his goal, a smile that is much bigger than it would have been had success occurred right away.

So many lessons from one simple project, so many reasons to be thankful.

Thanks!!!

Day 669 – Thankful for All the Things On I’m Thankful for that I Didn’t Blog About This Week

It be fun to put you inside my brain once in a while to see where these blogs come from. Over the past few days there’ve been numerous times in which I have a topic picked and the blog is almost completely written in my head. Next thing I know something else has jumped into being that I’m grateful for and I start mentally writing that one. By the end of the day there are more blogs in my head than I have time to type. Quite honestly, that’s what I’m thankful for today… Having more things that I’m thankful for than time to blog about all of them.

I’ve had some time to think about them and here are some of the ones that I missed this week (in no particular order):

  • Re-reading The Shack
  • Listening to and changing my actions due to a great sermon
  • The enjoyment of seeing someone else’s passion ignited
  • Learning from old mistakes
  • Reminders of our past marathons
  • Those fleeting moments when the boys get along well
  • My first pedicure to take off the crazy layers of calluses on my feet
  • Having a summer that’s way too busy – because it means we’re having fun
  • Finding a project to work on while on the beach
  • Seeing some really cool progress on the first batch of rocks we’re polishing
  • Having fun with a great team
  • Seeing associates I placed well over a decade ago
  • Chilling on the water
  • Getting hooked on yoga with Becky
  • My ride to and from work everyday
  • Finding ways to add more time to my day (thanks Norm!)
  • Having the opportunity to make money doing something I love

I know there are many, many more things as well, by these were some of the ones that I’d already mentally prepped and was very thankful for in the moment. I am so grateful for all of the many blessings on my life!

Thanks!!!

Day 668 – Thankful for a Successful Boy Scout Camp for Dominic

We just picked up Dominic from Scout Camp and it’s great having him home again. He’s already headed down to the basement, but at least we had time to catch up in the car! 😁

While at camp this week he was selected for the Order of the Arrow, earned his Star badge, and earned a couple of merit badges and made a lot of progress on a couple of others. The smile on his face tonight tells the whole story of how much fun he had at camp. That sounds like a successful Scout Camp to this old guy!

Sitting at the fire bowl tonight reminded me of so many great past scouting moments. I’m so thankful that he’s having fun and making memories of his own doing something that will continue to help him through his life.

Thanks!!!