Day 174 – Thankful for a Few Minutes of Quiet Time at Home

Thank God you’ve probably been reading this blog at least once in a while and know that I truly love and adore my family.  I really do!

That said, there was a short period of time in which Becky went to pick up Dominic from soccer and then took them to Kohl’s to pick up shoes.  I was alone in our quiet home and it was glorious!  Sadly, I mainly caught up on work emails and whatnot, but now as Gavin is burping in the bathroom while getting ready and Dominic is antagonizing an animal in our house…  all after they were just fighting in the hallway…  I’m realizing just home much I appreciated that little quiet oasis!

Thanks!!!

Day 173 – Thankful for Making Pinewood Derby Cars, Tree House Furniture, and Weapons for the Zombie Apocalypse with My Boys

Day 173 – Thankful for Making Pinewood Derby Cars, Tree House Furniture, and Weapons for the Zombie Apocalypse with My Boys

LOL – I could even type today’s gratitude without chuckling!  I’m not sure, but I think they may have spent too much time with Steve at one point or another!  Yes, today was filled with lots of creating and it was AWESOME!!!

After driving back fro Becky’s parents’ house we jumped right into PWD (Pinewood Derby) Mode.  Every year I do less and less and the boys do more and more.  This year the only thing I did was help a very little bit with cutting out the car and I added the weight (pretty sure Becky wouldn’t say yes to letting them work with lead).  Everything else was all Gavin and it was great to see him really get into it as did Dominic (making a car for fun).  The boys looked kind of like coal miners due to the graphite, but they were all smiles.

After a handful of test runs we went back home and moved on…  Dominic had Boy Scouts so it was just Gavin and I.  After a little bit of thinking he decided that he wanted to make a table so he could eat supper in the treehouse.  Why not?  It was pretty cool to have an excuse to help him get practice in how to build a table with support, how to use a drill correctly, how using a table saw fence makes it easier to make straight lines, and some good old fashioned measuring.  It turned out to be very solid and he was able to have it done in time for he and Dominic to have supper on it up in the treehouse.

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After dinner the boys decided they weren’t done creating yet…  It was time to create defenses in case of the zombie apocalypse!  Using their imagination, some tools, scrap wood and pocket knives they went to town as I finished up a puzzle box.  Gavin created a pretty awesome slingshot and was starting on a battle axe that well finish later in the week using the band saw.  Dominic opted for a sword that ended up looking pretty cool.  It was made even more realistic looking by adding the little bit of blood from a mistaken cut that took more of his finger than of the sword.  He took it like a champ, we got it bandaged up, and he was back at it.

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In spite of the injury they still had fun and worked on it until we called them in because it was getting dark out.  I am so grateful that they have the same spark for creating.  It would have been very easy for me to try to get some other things done that I wanted to get done instead of helping them out, but I would have regretted it.  With making stuff like this with them now I can’t wait to see what kinds of crazy stuff we’re making together in a year or two!!!  (pumpkin catapults and potato guns…  just sayin’…)

Thanks!!!

 

Day 172 – Thankful for #2 on Father Mark’s Top 10 List to Remember

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When Father Mark gave his last homily as the priest at our church it moved me to the point of asking him for a copy of it.  Thankfully he was willing to send it.  Since then whenever I take time to reflect on my values and the direction of my life I start with his words first and everything else seems to make a lot more sense.

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While they almost all made immediate sense to me there was always one that I couldn’t quite figure out.  The other nine were easier for me to understand – though they were all tough to remember in practice and in the moment.  Number Two always threw me off and I never quite got it.  It was easy for me to understand the importance of the other nine, this one just didn’t quite seem to fit.  When I re-read his homily I kind of cruise right by that one and move on.

As many of you know, I’ve spent a lot of time in self-reflection over the past months.  This isn’t of itself anything to brag about or anything to worry about me on, it is just something that I’ve been doing.  While my blogging has brought me incredible happiness it continues to unlock a little something in me, it seems like the more I dig into myself the more I learn and start to figure out about myself.  In spending time thinking it’s been interesting to see myself from a different angle and realize that I may have more to work on that I thought, all while realizing that there may be more positives about myself than I’ve given myself credit for.  Throughout all of this I’m feeling stronger in my faith than I’ve ever felt, something feels different in a very positive way.  As this as changed I’ve noticed things like an increased willingness to forgive, more acceptance of other points of view, sometimes taking time to think before speaking, and attempting to look at the world through someone else’s eyes before I make an assumption or judgement.  Far, far from any semblance of perfect or great, I have a long, long way to go, but I can tell I’m making progress.

As this is happening I’m starting to see little spots in which I’ve been able to help other people a little bit more.  It seems as if I’m starting to have a little greater impact for the positive.  Again, I’m not bragging or trying to say woe is me or anything, it just is what it is.  Know what I mean?  I can step outside of myself and see that I’m having a more positive impact on others than I have had in the past.

At church tonight there was a little lightbulb that lit up over my head and I just smiled.  I’m not sure, but I’m pretty positive that I totally spaced out for a period of time during the homily.  Becky mentioned something in my ear and I just agreed – sorry Babe, I was in my own little world!  What got in my head was Father Mark’s #2…  If you would be a river, first you must be a reservoir.

It finally sunk in…  only several years later and kind of by accident.  After all this time it eventually made sense.  In taking time to figure myself out, strengthen my own faith, and work on my own happiness I’m able to better help others.  My soul is stronger my spirit more positive, and my energy is higher.  This helps as a way to help others both by example and by giving me the right strength and perspective.  I’m no where near a reservoir, but I’m at least a little more than a puddle. 🙂

This blog never ceases to amaze me…  As I think and write one blog it seems that sometimes the underlying subject lays dormant just below the surface and helps me realize things that I’ve been missing.  Yesterday was learning from lessons long since past, today was the same.

Thanks!!!

Day 171 – Thankful for Old Ideas Unexpectedly Coming to Mind at the Right Time

In the middle of a very interesting conversation on the state of our business Nicole and I kept getting stuck. She had a great point, but I couldn’t quite agree with her completely. I had a great point, but she couldn’t quite agree with me completely. In talking through it we both knew we were close, but we were also both wrong. As we kept talking it out the light bulb went off!

I love reading and learning. It may take a lot of time, but it always seems rewarding. Once in a while I wonder if it is actually worth it, will I ever use this information again? Usually I can shut that thought out and persist, but sometimes it sticks with me.

Today was that reminder that it is worth it. Sometimes the right answer is an idea that was planted long ago. That’s exactly what happened today.


Pulling out a nugget of knowledge that had been stored many years ago from the book Great By Choice by Jim Collins we had found the right answer. While we can’t give it away quite yet, it seems to be the right way to solve the issue we were facing.Thanks!!!

Day 170 – Thankful for Taking a Moment to Let the Feeling of a Team Success Soak In 

This was a text I got this afternoon after one of my teammates and I talked about the results of our previous week:


It was an incredible feeling!  How much better is the moment knowing that it the success was  shared by a team?

It really got me thinking on the ride home today.  As I reflected I kept thinking back to one of the things that motivates me most…  having independence.  That said, the feeling of accomplishing something great as a part of a team is flat out awesome!  After a while I started to realize how such seemingly polar opposites can happen at the same time.  While a part of a team I have the independence to decide where to put my time, focus and energy while helping to push the team towards our combined goal.  Pretty sure that’s one of the most satisfying things in my working life 😄

Thanks!!!

Day 169 – Thankful for a Running Date with One of my Favorite Girls (shh… Don’t Tell Becky!)

Day 169 – Thankful for a Running Date with One of my Favorite Girls (shh… Don’t Tell Becky!)

The presentation went very well today and I my adrenaline was pumping afterwards.  I went back to the office, got done what had to be done, and then left a little early to get in the run I skipped this morning to get a little extra practice in.

Once home I was planning on either Running with Dominic or throwing on my headphones and getting a solo run in.  Dominic had a headache and as I was getting ready Becky told me she had to take Sky to the vet, maybe I should take LuLu.  Why not?

One of the reasons I agreed to getting a dog in the first place (not that I really ever had a choice!) was to have a running buddy.  At the time we got Sky the boys were too small to leave home alone so we had to run solo.  I saw pictures of runners smiling as they ran with their furry companions in several magazines and bought that would be peaceful.

Today was one of the first times in as long as I can remember that it was just LuLu and I out for a run together, and it was just as awesome as I’d imagined.  Her playful bouncing made my legs less heavy, her smile made me smile, and her stopping to smell everything gave me time to walk and breathe!  Four miles later we’d had a wonderful time bonding.


While I’m still not much of a dog person, times like this remind me that there is one somewhere deep down.  Thanks for the awesome running date today LuLu!


Thanks!!!

Day 168 – Thankful for Honest and Constructive Feedback

In preparation for tomorrow’s presentation I’ve spent a good chunk of the day practicing.  The last run of the day was particularly interesting as Sammi jumped in to help me out and critique it.

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While it was a little extra nerve wracking to present to just one other person it went pretty well.  Sammi had many ideas to improve the presentation and I’m thankful for all of the advice she gave me.  I’m not sure if it had to do with the topic or not, but she did a wonderful job of helping me see some spots to change, gave me ideas of better examples, and shared insights that I would have missed without her.  What I really appreciated was the way she offered up the feedback, sharing her thoughts and following them up with ideas.  Throw in a couple of compliments that helped boost my spirits and it was a great test run.

It’s amazing how much better something can become with the help and feedback from others.  Thanks for the extra help today Sammi!

Thanks!!!

Day 167 – Thankful for Everything I’m Thankful For and Haven’t Blogged About This Weekend

Day 167 – Thankful for Everything I’m Thankful For and Haven’t Blogged About This Weekend

Becky had the incredible foresight last night to sign us up for yoga at 5:30 this morning.  Due to the snow and cold running outside would have been miserable, and she was right, doing yoga in a balmy 96 degree room felt much better!

As we got to the final rest when I’m supposed to shut down the brain and just be I had a problem…  I couldn’t shut my brain off.  Instead of almost falling asleep or re-living an awesome moment on the beach my brain kept thinking about just how fortunate I was to have the weekend I had.  So many memories kept sparking another, and then another. 

Heading home I realized that I am very thankful for all of the other things I’ve been thankful for over the past weekend that didn’t get written about.  Even though they may not have gotten their own post earlier I am very thankful for them all today as they’ve helped me start my day from a very positive place.

  • I’m thankful for being able to work on things that I’m very passionate about.  Most of my time on Friday at work was spent in a state of flow and it was AWESOME!!!
  • I’m thankful for great coaches and mentors.  Isn’t it awesome to have those right people just happen to walk into our life at just the right time when you invite them?
  • I’m thankful for living near the Mississippi flyway.  Watching the hundreds of bald eagles everywhere on the river takes my breath away every year.
  • I’m thankful for hanging out with friends.  We had a great time catching up with some of the couples we’ve know for years and years and that we’ve vacationed with.  It was great to have some time to re-kindle those friendships.
  • I’m thankful for the success the boys had in their Scouting for Food weekend.  They did a great job of hanging bags last weekend and were rewarded with a lot of bags to pick up this past weekend.  Thanks to their help there’s a lot of food going to the food pantry at Summit Elementary!  It warms my heart to see how much they enjoy helping others.
  • I’m thankful for the fun inside jokes we have as teams.  The ride to and from Rochester with my Winona team left me with a big smile.  It’s so much fun being able to share stories and jokes that only our bunch of goofballs get 🙂
  • I’m thankful for Becky being incredibly flexible with our weekend plans.  It would have been very easy and well within her rights to say no to changing the plans around, but she let the changes all happen with nothing but a smile.  Pretty sure she has a leg up on the Wife of the Year in 2018 already!
  • I’m thankful for the sushi Becky and I had in the Florida Keys seven years ago.  That’s right, one meal seven years ago was so delicious and memorable that I still remember it after all these years!IMG_7409
  • I’m thankful for almost daily reminders of how quickly the boys grow up.  On Facebook the memory popped up of Dominic losing his first tooth and learning to ride a bike on the same day from FIVE years ago already!  To be clear, both did not happen at the same time.IMG_7410
  • I’m thankful for making things for other people.  Creating something is just a core part of who I am, creating something with the intent of giving it away is pure bliss.  When they say you get more by giving, I totally agree.  I’ve been smiling from ear to ear as I’ve done a couple of projects recently and always find myself pushing to do a better job than ever before to make them proud.
  • I’m thankful for Gavin’s interest in making puzzle boxes.  There was a ton of other stuff that I wanted to get done yesterday afternoon, but when that kid said he wanted to make a puzzle box I knew my plans were in need of a change.
  • I’m thankful for seeing Dominic’s personal growth, specifically his growth mindset.  Yesterday he started carving out his pinewood derby car to make it look like a Batman car.  As I was grilling lunch he came outside by me with a smile on his face and told me, “Dad, we have a problem.  I need to make some changes to my car.”  Then he showed me the piece that was broken due to a mistaken movement of his pocket knife.  No anger, no tears, no disappointment, just acceptance and looking at the glass half full.  I am so proud of that kid in moments like that when he has a choice in his emotions and attitude and chooses the right one.  For the record, his re-done car looks pretty rad!
  • I’m thankful for a beautiful piece of wood.  There’s sometimes a piece of wood that is just so beautifully imperfectly perfect that I just stare at it in amazement for a while.  I catch myself looking at it and having the wrong mindset.  I’m so worried about making sure that I do not screw it up that this feeling of loss comes over me before anything bad happens.  Then I catch myself, smile, and say “what the hell!”  Before I know it I’m trying to use it to do something I’ve never done before and I have no idea whether or not I’ll be successful.  As I want to honor the awesome gift it is in front of me I know it would be a dishonor to not use it and set it aside due to fear, but I honor it by using it for what it was intended.  Maybe there’ll be a mistake, but maybe it will be amazing…  If I don’t try something both it and I will be wasted.  As you can probably guess, I came across an AMAZING block of wood yesterday.  I almost let fear get in the way, but I flipped the switch and started creating.  Guess what?  I screwed up and made a mistake.  Without losing my smile I just shook my head, showed Gavin, and told him my next puzzle box was about to become about an inch shorter than I intended.  I cut off the mistake and will start over on it this week.  All that from one beautiful piece of wood.IMG_7426

All of these things to be grateful for and so many more that I’ve forgotten or haven’t listed because I’d rather keep them to myself for now.  What I am really thankful for is such an wonderful weekend in all of its chaos and craziness and all of the incredible gifts it brought me.  Thank you to each and every one of you who helped bring those gifts to life this weekend.  I can’t imagine my life without you.

Thanks!!!

Day 166 – Thankful for an Impromptu Rick Visit

The original plan for last night included heading to bed relatively early…  In actuality?  Not so much!

During our Super Saturday I got the following text from Rick (one of my best friends from WAY back, we’ve been friends since we were like 3)…

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Next thing I knew Rick was on his way to La Crosse and we were off to the races!  It was an awesome night filled with tons of awesomeness.  When we get together we always have a great time, but there was something pretty incredible about it being impromptu like this.

Thanks for an awesome time Rick!!!

Thanks!!!

Day 165 – Thankful for an Awesome Super Saturday

Today was our annual Super Saturday, a day in which all of our teams get together for training, networking, motivation, and fun.

This year was even more awesome than normal, we all were to come dressed as super heroes…  the costumes were awesome!!!


Throw in a pretty incredible story by an American Ninja Warrior and it was a very successful day.  I’d type more but I’m pretty tired from all the fun!

Thanks!!!