Thankful for Bus Driver Wisdom, NP #35, & Hiking in Sequoia

Day 3,177

Growth:

Nothing quite like the sage-like wisdom from bus drivers, cab drivers, & Uber drivers! Our bus driver today was outstanding and shared a handful of awesome nuggets of knowledge. The topics today covered looking vs observing, the relativity of time, and seeds of sequoias needing fire to grow. Gavin even jokingly gave me a hard time about taking notes on my phone šŸ˜‚

Appreciation:

National Park #35 for Becky and I today – Sequoia!!!

This one is definitely one of my favorites, the trees were truly awesome!!!

Presence:

Our entire hike today was a study in presence. Spending time surrounded by behemoth trees who were alive when Jesus walked the Earth will certainly have that impact on people! šŸ˜‰

Thanks!!!

Thankful for Planning and Luck, Humility, & #34 – King’s Canyon

Day 3,176

Growth:

Planning can be hugely beneficial, and good luck is always welcomed.

Thanks to planning this trip so far ahead we’ve been able to stay super close to the parks we’re visiting. We’ve saved well over two hours of driving each day.

Thanks to good luck on two occasions we’ve been fortunate to have the roads for specific trails open less than four days before we wanted to hike them. Not too shabby!

Plan ahead, make the most of luck, and roll with any unexpected changes.

Appreciation:

Spending time in the presence of a living being more than 1,650 years old is incredibly humbling in a beautiful way. The General Grant Tree was a sight to behold, it certainly put time into a whole new perspective for me.

Seeing ā€œyoungā€ sequoias which were planted in the 1880’s now towering over me added to the sense of awe and tininess.

Standing on the stump of the Mark Twain tree and counting out an entire century of rings and seeing what a minuscule percentage of the total rings really added to the sense of insignificance.

Trees more than 1,600 years older than me. Rocks more than 115 million years older than me. Humbling in a beautiful way.

Presence:

National Park #34 – King’s Canyon!!!

Thanks!!!

Thankful for a Great Quote by John Muir, Medicine for the Soul, & the Boys Being Boys

Day 3,175

Growth:

Dam Hetch Hetchy! As well dam for water-tanks the people’s cathedrals and churches, for no holier temple has ever been consecrated by the heart of man.

John Muir, The Yosemite

Appreciation:

Nothing quite like the quiet time on hiking in the woods and soaking up all the awesomeness around us to help clear the mind and fill the soul. 50+ miles of invigorating trails in the outdoors over the past five days, pure medicine for the soul!

Presence:

Watching the boys run and slide down the snow on the side of the mountains in Yosemite today was awesome! Their laughter was so heartwarming!!! Knowing they’re creating memories together like that fills my soul with joy.

Thanks!!!

Thankful for Awareness of Tradeoffs, Prioritizing Family, & Repeating History

Day 3,174

Growth:

What are the short term fixes I apply rather than long term solutions and why? So many reasons this popped into my head today from learning about the damming of the Hetch Hetchy valley to thoughts about work.

Appreciation:

Carving out time away from the rest of the world to spend time sharing experiences with my family and creating memories is something I am eternally grateful for. All this bonus time together without distractions has me smiling from ear to ear. Going to bed with another huge smile on my face!

Presence:

The moment the boys repeat history by using the ā€œone person cuts and the other person chooses which half they wantā€ system over dinner had me smiling and bringing back so many memories!

Thanks!!!

Thankful for Quick Action, Early Bed on Vacation , & More Yosemite

Day 3,172

Growth:

Take care of easy to handle things quickly rather than allowing them to weigh you down. Instead of keeping it back of mind for hours take a quick one minute action now so it’s not a big deal.

Appreciation:

We’re all in bed and it’s not even 8:30pm. Sure I’d bet we’re all reading, but the awesomeness and physicality of the past couple days are hitting all of us hard. Gotta love vacations that leave you exhausted in an awesome way!

Presence:

So many wonderful sights on our hike in Yosemite today! Some of the favs were seeing the sunrise hit the Dawn Wall, several waterfalls with rainbows, and more animal close encounters.

Thanks!!!

Thankful for Awe, Family Vacation, & Sequoias

Day 3,171

Growth:

The sense of awe brings out the best in all of us. Awe is easy to find on vacation, especially in a place as majestic as Yosemite, but it can be found anywhere if we pause to seek it out. Once we do it expands our minds in new ways, helping to bring out the best in us.

Appreciation:

Family vacation, some of the best experiences in life!

Presence:

Seeing our first sequoias of this trip created a very emotional response deep within me. Something about their grandeur rocked me more deeply to the core than I expected.

Thanks!!!

Thankful for The Amen Effect & National Park #33

Day 3,170

Growth & Appreciation:

Reading The Amen Effect by Sharon Brous has been an incredible gift! While I received an emphatic recommendation for it from my friend, Amanda, I was a little hesitant. Little did I know what an immediate impact it would make on my soul.

The short version of this book is that regardless of our spiritual beliefs the most important thing we can do is love others. Rather than self isolation or ignoring what others feel we are called to act with kindness, be present, and love them.

I took soooooo many notes on this, here’s an example.

My Note on the Topic of Loving Others: Denialism vs wonder – one way creates more conflict, dehumanizes, and fuels hate and separation. The other leads to understanding, compassion, and kindness. Don’t create a monster, listen to the human and love them.

The quote from the book that inspired this note:

Refuse to live in a world which judges people based on their worst behavior. Pray for the end of the sin, not for the end of the sinner. Distinguish between monsters and people who do monstrous things. Fight to awaken others’ humanity even when they do not recognize yours. Help them grow and change.

Sharon Brous, The Amen Effect

So many immediately useful and effective tools to better live into who we are called to be. I will read this book at least once per year!

Presence:

Today we entered National Park #33…. Yosemite!!! Tomorrow we start exploring it!

Thanks!!!

Thankful for the Two Second Rule, Shifting Perspective, & Enjoying the Ride

Day 3,169

Growth:

The challenge: when you’re in conversation with someone, all you have to do is leave two seconds of silence before you speak. Simple, right? Except this was harder than I ever could’ve imagined. I tried several times and failed miserably at first, but after about ten attempts it started to get easier. Eventually, I got to the point where I was able to get through entire conversations by just leaving that two-second window open.

Jason Poole, The Hustler’s Handbook

Appreciation:

Daily life plays out as normal for the most part. It is easy for me to get caught up in the routine and miss seeing things clearly. Once outside of the normal routine so many things become more vibrant and visible. The past few days have been a wonderful step outside of normal to help see the world through a slightly cleaner lens and it was what I needed more than I would’ve expected.

Presence:

Sometimes you just gotta lighten up and enjoy the ride!

Thanks!!!