Day 2,821

Growth:

Six years later I still miss Dad. There are so many times I’d love to call him and share a story or two or to apologize for having experienced something the boys did to me that I 100% know I did to Dad back in the day. Father’s Day reminds me of Dad with striking regularity. Rather than a couple of thoughts per day as usual his memory surfaces seemingly many times per hour.

In each of those moments I have a choice to make. I can choose to be sad he’s gone or to wish we would have had more time. Or I can choose to appreciate all the moments we had together, all the memories we created together. I can choose to be inspired and motivated by Dad’s examples and wisdom to help be a better dad for my sons.

I don’t always make the right choice, but I make the right decision more and more often as I practice.

Appreciation:

The boys gave me an awesome card and gift today. It 100% brought tears, so thankful for the gift, but even more grateful for the thought and meaning behind it. 🥹

Presence:

Time outside with my family for Father’s Day, the best gift possible!

Thanks!!!